Desolation, derived from the Latin desolatus meaning “to leave alone,” refers to a state of affective heaviness that instills sadness and depletes the energy needed for living. Non-spiritual desolation can manifest in various forms and, while a normal part of human experience, it can have significant implications for one’s spiritual life if left unaddressed.
Types of Non-Spiritual Desolation
- Physical Desolation: This occurs when the body is exhausted, injured, or otherwise compromised, often due to overextension and neglect of essential needs like nourishment, exercise, and rest. For example, a mother staying up late to care for her sick children will naturally feel tired, a form of physical desolation that, while noble, requires prudent care to prevent it from escalating into spiritual desolation.
- Emotional Desolation: This form of desolation involves feelings of depression, loneliness, or grief, such as after the death of a loved one. Emotional desolation, like physical desolation, is a common experience and can even be a “holy” part of our earthly journey. However, persistent emotional desolation needs to be addressed to avoid it becoming a source of spiritual desolation.
The Connection Between Non-Spiritual and Spiritual Desolation
Non-spiritual desolation, while natural, can easily become a breeding ground for spiritual desolation if not managed wisely. As Fr. Timothy Gallagher explains, “Non-spiritual desolation is frequently a springboard for spiritual desolation… it constitutes a fertile source of spiritual desolation and so a potential hazard for the spiritual journey” (Discernment of Spirits, 61). The enemy often exploits these vulnerabilities, using our physical and emotional weaknesses to lead us into spiritual desolation.
Examples of Non-Spiritual Desolation Leading to Spiritual Desolation
- Example 1: A man overextends himself for months without proper rest or exercise. As he becomes physically and emotionally exhausted, his relationships at work and home suffer (non-spiritual desolation). This weariness soon permeates his spiritual life, making prayer difficult and causing God to feel distant (spiritual desolation).
- Example 2: A woman struggles with difficult relationships, leading to ongoing anxiety and depression (non-spiritual desolation). Over time, this emotional heaviness diminishes her energy for spiritual practices, leading her to lose hope in her spiritual growth (spiritual desolation).
In both examples, non-spiritual desolation creates the conditions for spiritual desolation, emphasizing the importance of addressing these issues before they escalate.
Addressing Non-Spiritual Desolation
For the sake of our spiritual lives, it is crucial to address persistent non-spiritual desolation. Practical steps, such as ensuring adequate rest, engaging in regular exercise, and seeking social support, can mitigate the effects of physical and emotional desolation. St. Teresa of Avila wisely advises, “Take care, then, of the body for the love of God, because at many times the body must serve the soul.” Prudent care of the body and emotions is essential, as it closes the door to potential spiritual attacks.
Key Insight: Use non-spiritual remedies, like physical exercise or spending time in nature, to overcome non-spiritual desolation. By strengthening our humanity, we expand the space in which God’s grace can work in us, aligning with the principle that “grace perfects nature.”
Confusion as a Sub-Category of Non-Spiritual Desolation
Confusion, in itself, is not inherently problematic. However, it becomes desolating when we allow ourselves to be disturbed by uncertainty or lack of knowledge. The story of John Kavanaugh asking Mother Teresa to pray for clarity highlights this: Mother Teresa replied, “I’ve never had clarity and certitude. I only have trust. I’ll pray that you trust” (Come Be My Light, 25). Trust, rather than clarity, is the antidote to confusion and the key to navigating through desolation.
Conclusion
Understanding and addressing non-spiritual desolation is vital for maintaining spiritual health. By being wise stewards of our physical and emotional well-being, we can prevent non-spiritual desolation from escalating into spiritual desolation. Remember, the body is important in prayer, and taking care of physical needs can fortify our spiritual lives. As we navigate the challenges of desolation, let us rely on God’s grace, trusting that He will guide us through both the natural and spiritual trials we face.
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